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Wednesday Reflections: The Sacred Dance of Connection Soul Ties & Sacred Wounds

Let’s not pretend to be healing is pretty.

Let’s not act like love is always light and relationships don’t leave bruises.
Let’s not keep walking around smiling on the outside while bleeding out on the inside.

This image right here? It’s everything.

Two people. Back-to-back. Red and blue. Fire and ice. Masculine and feminine.
Tied together by the heart, but still not facing each other.
Still distant. Still torn.


In a connection so deep it shook your soul, but it also broke you in ways you couldn’t speak out loud?
In a bond that felt divine, but left you questioning your worth?
In a relationship where your trauma was louder than your love?

Yeah… me too.

Some people call it passion. Others call it pain.
The truth is it’s both.
And if you’ve never had to untangle your healing from someone else’s damage, you won’t understand.

But if you do understand, welcome home.

“Some connections are soul-deep, but not soul-safe. Know the difference.”

This blog isn’t here to make you comfortable. It’s here to make you conscious.
This is Treasurable Life, a sacred space where we get real about what it means to heal, to hurt, and to hope again.

I’ve loved while broken.
I’ve trusted when I shouldn’t have.
I’ve forgiven before the apology.
And I’ve rebuilt myself out of the ruins of people who didn’t know how to handle someone whole.

Scripture:
“The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” – Psalm 34:18

You don’t need to be perfect to live a life worth treasuring. You just need to be real.
Honest. Raw. Open.
Even if your voice shakes.

And listening to healing doesn’t mean we can’t laugh.
Here’s your midweek medicine: Real Talk Joke:
Why don’t relationships work on elevators?
Because they’re always full of ups and downs.

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For the ones still bleeding, still believing, becoming.

You are not too far gone. You are not too damaged.
You are worthy of a life that feels whole and sacred, even if you’re still piecing it together.

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Treasured by the Storm is a healing space dedicated in loving memory of my mother. Created by Latonia, this blog shares stories of strength, loss, healing, and hope. Through writing, I turn pain into purpose and memories into meaning. This space is for anyone learning to heal, grow, and keep going through life’s storms. Her memory lives here in every word, every story, and every step forward.
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2 responses to “Wednesday Reflections: The Sacred Dance of Connection Soul Ties & Sacred Wounds”

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    For Singles And Couples

    Yes Latonia,
    The sad fact and truth is, soul ties are often spoken about in negative terms, and sadly, that’s because they usually are.
    However, soul ties can be positive, uplifting, and nourishing, but they must be established in the perfect will of our Creator.

    Must grown-folk, have had their fair share of experiences, when we ignored the relationship warning signs and proceeded.
    When we ignored the link to Abba Yeshua, our conscience, when we were told…No!
    Some of us have been spared the trauma caused by a negative soul-tie, but have still got some bruises to show for it.
    The rest need to go through major healing, counselling, and restoration.
    By your well-written and thoughtful descriptions and summaries, your book will help.

    There is a light at the end of a dark road, there is a way for us to experience how 2 were and are to become 1, and that’s through obedience.
    When we understand the spiritual significance of Holy matrimony, once and done, until death, the natural and spiritual divorce.
    When we understand that sex and sexual intimacy, goes deeper than the physical psychological responses and emotional euphoria.
    Then we can understand and experience the positive side of being soul-tied, to your soul-mate, when two become one, as Abba Yeshua intended, for all who are not natural celibates/spiritual eunuchs.

    Thank you for sharing the healing journey.
    As you obviously know, everyone hurts at some point, it’s all part of the process of growth and development.

    Amani!

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      Treasurable Life

      Yes, absolutely thank you for putting this into words with such clarity and depth.

      You’re so right soul ties are often framed in the negative because that’s where many have felt the most pain. But there is a sacred and life-giving side to them, when they’re rooted in divine alignment and the Creator’s will. That’s a message more people need to hear.

      Many of us have learned the hard way—ignoring those quiet inner warnings, that “No” from Abba Yeshua, only to find ourselves wounded and wondering how we got there. But there’s grace, healing, and restoration available, and your words point to that so powerfully.

      I appreciate how you’ve brought it back to the spiritual foundation of what it means for two to become one not just in body, but in purpose, spirit, and covenant. That level of intimacy can’t be mimicked or manufactured it’s sacred. And yes, it requires obedience, surrender, and deep understanding.

      Thank you for reminding us that there’s a positive, beautiful side to soul ties when they’re divinely appointed. And thank you for sharing a message of hope for healing, even for those carrying deep scars.

      Amani and blessings to you as well. 🙏

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